January 28, 2021
Nocito, Maria
Maria (Thieme) Nocito, 84, a resident of Philadelphia for over 45 years, died January 27 of complications from a stroke in Dedham, Massachusetts. She had moved to Dedham five years ago to be closer to her daughter, Dasha Layne. Maria spent her early years in the Russian enclave in Shanghai, China. Her family had fled to China during the Russian revolution. She remembered her family friends telling her that her grandfather served in the military under Czar Nicholas, so they were forced to leave. Her mother died when Maria was nine months old and her father died when she was eight. After their father’s death, she was adopted by a family friend, Anna Thieme, who earned a living as a dressmaker and seamstress. At the end of WWII, Maria and Anna spent a year in Japan before emigrating to the United States. They settled in Long Island where Anna continued to work as a seamstress fashioning fine clothing. Maria excelled at school and earned a scholarship to the State University of New York, Stonybrook. While attending college she worked as a nanny. After graduation she worked for advertising agencies in New York City. In New York she met and married George Nocito, a talented sculptor. The couple moved to George’s hometown of Philadelphia so he could earn a master’s degree in fine arts from Temple University and then to West Virginia where George was teaching at the University of West Virginia. The Nocitos returned to Philadelphia in 1969 when George became the chairman of the art department at the University of Delaware. Maria is predeceased by her husband George who died in 1980. For several years she was coordinator of international programs and in charge of membership at the Victorian Society in America in Philadelphia. Maria is survived by her daughter Dasha, her son-in-law Matthew, two grandchildren Amelia and Noah, and her brother Andrei who lives in Germany.
I just happened to be thinking about my old friend Maria
Nocito tonight and was sharing some stories with a friend.
I was saying how she and George were really the people who encouraged me to invest in real estate and as it turned out I bought a condo just a few houses down from their old gorgeous home on Spring Garden in another Victorian building. So I was checking the internet to see if I could perhaps send a note to Maria and very sadly saw this obituary from just a few days ago.
So VERY sorry to hear this news. She was a wonderful person with a very warm heart who loved her daughter dearly. So very sorry for the loss of your dear Mom Dasha, and my condolences to your family.