May 16, 2009
Dudas, Phyllis
Phyllis Elizabeth “Betty” (Chubbuck) Dudas, a resident of Dedham since 1950, died Friday, May 15, 2009 at the Milton Hospital in Milton, Massachusetts. She was 87. Betty was born November 30, 1921 in Boston, Massachusetts, the daughter of the late Harry and Annetta (Mason) Chubbuck. She worked as an administrator for Affiliated Nursing Homes, as a secretary for St. John’s Church in Jamaica Plain, and for 15 years as the administrator for the Wes-Rox Mental Health Center.Betty was the wife of the late Robert K. Stuhlmann and of the late John J. Dudas, and the sister of the late Harry Chubbuck. She is survived by her son, the Reverend Robert K. Stuhlmann, and his wife Jean Guenther, of Stratford, CT; her two daughters, Janice E. Linsky of Dedham, and Joanne Saunders, and her husband David, of Tucson, AZ; her son-in-law, Jerrold Linsky; her eight grandchildren, Jay Kyle, Eric, and Callie Milewski, Genevieve Levin, Christopher and Emma Stuhlmann, and Jessie and Abigail Saunders; her two great grandchildren, Kade Milewski and Zoe Saunders; many beloved nieces and nephews including Nancy Copeland, Donna Casoni, Carol Ann Foley, and Harry Chubbuck; and her two dear friends, Marie Sprague and Alice Pollock.Visiting hours will be held Wednesday from 6-8 PM at the Folsom Funeral Home, 87 Milton Street, Dedham. A Memorial Service will be held Thursday at 11 AM at the Church of the Good Shepherd, 62 Cedar St., Dedham. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers donations to the MSPCA, 350 South Huntington Avenue, Boston, MA 02130 or to the charity of your choice would be appreciated.
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My dear, dear Aunt Betty…I am thinking of you on your 88th birthday. I love you very much and am so blessed to have had you in my life. I really dont know what I would have done without you. I know you are looking down upon all of us, shaking your head, and saying ‘nobody else would put up with it!’
I love and miss you with all my heart…
Nanniegoat
Nana,
I am thinking of you every second of every day. I love and miss you more than words can say. The way you impacted everyone you knew is truly an inspiration for us all. Thanksgiving was not and will never be the same without you. Happy birthday beautiful!
Love,
Callie xoxoxoxo
Dear Mommy:
I think of you and remember you every single day since you left us for a more peaceful place. Your birthday of course is also special and will never be forgotten. It was a much different Thanksgiving this year and I was anxious over how I would deal with not having you with us and not having birthday cake along with our pies. Well, hard as it feels somedays, we do move forward, the torch was passed to your grandaughter Callie this year and she would have made you as proud as she made me. She even passed your stuffing test with flying colors! You must have been looking over her shoulder and directing her as you did with me. I’m grateful this year that you are with your mother and dad, my wonderful dad, and Bob’s also. Our Oreo had to leave us the day before Thanksgiving and I hope she’s with you. I am grateful this year that my life is progressing in a peaceful and positive direction and that I have you and dad living with me. Your presence in my home helps me daily. I hope you both hear my prayers and feel my love and kisses which you receive each and every morning. I still wear our angel on a chain every day. There are many days that I still feel the need for my MOMMY HUG! I’m sending you one now and I know you’ll feel my love. Happy Birthday Mommy! Love you always, always my love. Your little girl, Janice P>S. Bob went to Ireland for his birthday and saw lots of rainbows. You must have sent them!
Angels: Please take this message to my Mom up above to wish her a happy birthday and give her a hug.
Dear Mom,
Happy 88th birthday on your first away from home. No birthday cards or presents to give, just all my love as long as I live. Your never more than a thought away and your loved and missed more and more every day.
All my love always
Joanne oxoxoxoxox
Angels, please take this message to our Mom up above to wish her a happy birthday and give her all our love.
Dear mom
today is your birthday and I hope you know how much you are missed by me and so many others as well Not just today but always. I hope and pray that you have found peace and happiness on the other side of your rainbow. I wish you had someway of telling me the real truth. I love you so much. Give my love , hugs and kisses to Dad and all our loved ones that have gone on before us.
My dear Mom,
Well another year has gone by and you are still in my thoughts every day. Well Mommy, today is your birthday and you are now the Big 90, free of pain, and full of divine peace. You shine your light on me every day of my life. I miss you dearly, your wit, your humor, and yes, your precisely timed sarcasm. Rest well Mom and wait for me and yes Happy Birthday oxox
Love Janice