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Nicholas “Nick” Joseph Freitas, of Dedham, beloved son, brother, uncle and friend, passed away, with family by his side on Sunday, September 12, 2021. Born on March 17, 1979 in Beverly, Massachusetts, Nick was raised by his mother, Bobbi Stapleton, his father, Manuel “Joe” Freitas, and his bonus mom, Linda Freitas. Nick lived a full life in his 42 years, over 30 of them in Dedham. Nick enjoyed travel, good food and martial arts. He could park a car almost anywhere. Nick’s current role as the Head of Security at Mariel was a highlight for him in a career spanning almost 3 decades in the Boston nightlife. Nick’s passion for people and music blossomed during his years in the industry. He mastered his craft, winning Doorman of the Year awards, and garnered hundreds of treasured friends. Nick was an integral part of the Haymakers for Hope charity program, started by one of his dearest friends. He traveled throughout the country, volunteering his time and utilizing his security skills, contributing to the success of a cause so close to his heart. Nick burst into this world and showed an unimaginable strength from his first days of life until his last breath. His empathy and respect for others shined throughout his life and the relationships he built are a testament to the soul of our beautiful boy. His cutting wit brought smiles and laughter to those who were lucky enough to be part of his life. He protected his loved ones and those in need. Nick loved intensely and his personality is one that cannot be captured in mere words. His devastated family will continue to be lifted by their memories of his life. Nick is survived by his parents, Bobbi and Joe, sister, Tara Smith and her husband Cody, cherished nephew and niece, Felix Joseph and Lily June. He was predeceased recently by his bonus mom, Linda. Visiting hours will be held from 2 to 4 PM on September 17th at the Folsom Funeral Home, 87 Milton Street, Dedham with a Memorial Service immediately following at 4 PM. Masks are required. In lieu of flowers, donations to Haymakers for Hope, 501 Boylston Street, c/o WeWork, Boston, Massachusetts 02116, would be appreciated.

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Norma E. Lowe of Norwood, formerly of Cocoa, Florida, passed away on September 6, 2021 at the age of 88. She was the beloved wife of the late Robert C. Lowe. Mrs. Lowe is survived by her children; Cheryl J. Cummins and her husband Skip of Dedham, Robert W. Lowe and his wife Lisa of Norwood and Valerie Stivaletta of Wolfcreek, Montana. A proud grandmother of 6 grandchildren; Cynthia D’Atona, Warren Cummins, Jeff and Sean Stivaletta, Tanya O’Brien and Alicia Lowe and 9 great grandchildren; Mason, James, Guy, Ava, Cody, Cameron, Rocco, “Sunny” and Harper. She was predeceased by her siblings, Charles Mitchell and Estelle Fetter. Services and interment are private. Donations in her memory may be sent to MSPCA, 350 So. Huntington Ave., Boston, MA 02130

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Helen Theresa (Welch) DeShiro, a long time resident of Dedham passed away on September 8, 2021. She was the beloved wife of the late Dennis P. DeShiro and the loving mother of Stephen DeShiro and his wife Diana of Dorchester and Michael DeShiro and his wife Melisa of Dedham. She is also survived by her siblings; Catherine Welch, Joanne Giggi, both of Dedham and Michael Welch of Orlando, Florida. Helen was the proud grandmother of Angel, AJ, Sireena, Samantha and Stephen. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday, September 12, 2021 from 4 to 8 PM at the Folsom Funeral Home, 87 Milton St., Dedham. Relatives and friends will gather at the funeral home on Monday, September 13, 2021 at 9 AM followed by a funeral Mass at 10 o’clock at St. Mary’s Church, 420 High St., Dedham. Interment is private. In lieu of flowers donations in her memory may be made to the Lupus Foundation of NE, 40 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701

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Barbara M. Collins of Natick and Norwood passed away peacefully on Sunday, September 5th, with her daughter by her side. She is survived by her daughter Maura Collins Feldman, son-in-law Tom, and two grandsons Charlie and Danny, all of Wayland, MA. Her two grandsons were the apples of her eye and brought her the most joy in retirement. Barbara was a life-long educator. She taught third grade for over 40 years, primarily at the CJ Prescott School in Norwood. She loved teaching third grade because it is such a pivotal year in early education where kids begin doing more complicated math, topics from their previous grade start to coalesce, and she loved the energy of third graders. Being a first generation Irish American, Barbara had a special connection with Ireland. She loved traveling to Ireland with her extended family to enjoy the countryside where her mother grew up and visiting her family who still lives there. Although Barbara was an only child, she had over 30 first cousins, residing both in eastern US and in Ireland. Throughout her life, Barbara made connections and friends who doubled as close family. She had a special knack for making all holidays special for everyone around her, always preparing and celebrating with decorations, special napkins, and some type of gift to coordinate. A seemingly endless supply of candy was always around to share with visitors, which brought great joy particularly to her grandsons. Barbara is predeceased by her husband John Charles Day. Visiting hours will be held on Thursday September 9th at May Funeral Home, 85 Nichols Street in Norwood from 3 to 7 pm. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her funeral Friday, Sep 10th starting at 9:30 am at the funeral home and process to St. Timothy’s Church, 650 Nichols St, Norwood for her Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 am.  Interment will follow at Saint Joseph Cemetery in West Roxbury, MA. In lieu of flowers a donation can be made in Barbara’s name to Globe Santa, PO Box 491, Medford, MA 02155-0005 

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Robert Grove Soule, 63, of Westwood, died peacefully on August 31, 2021, surrounded by his family. Bob always considered his family to be his greatest accomplishment and the source of his pleasure and pride. Bob is survived by his wife of 39 years, Maura Kelley Soule, and their three children, Courtney Kelley Soule of Woburn, Katherine Winsor Soule of Boston, and Zachary Augustus Soule of Boston, as well as a brother, Augustus Whittemore Soule of Kona, Hawaii.

Born in Boston, Bob grew up in Dedham, spending idyllic summers at his family’s home in Duxbury, where he swam, fished, and generally engaged in boyish high jinks. A graduate of the Dexter School, Milton Academy (1975), Harvard College (1979), and Suffolk Law School (1983), Bob valued education, and he treasured his friendships from those years even more. He maintained strong relationships with his childhood friends throughout his life, and he continued to make lifelong friends along the way. A kind, fun, humorous man, it was easy to get along with Bob. His generosity and thoughtfulness have left indelible impressions on those lucky enough to know him.

He met his future wife and best friend, Maura, in 1981 at a “bar review” pub night while they were both in law school, and he knew immediately that he had met the love of his life and the girl he would marry. They married in 1982, raised three children together, traveled the world, and cherished every day in one another’s company.

In addition to his love of his family and friends, Bob loved his work underwriting, insuring, and managing large commercial real estate transactions. He served as Vice President, Manager, and Senior Underwriting Counsel for Commonwealth Land Title’s Boston National Commercial Services operation, joining the company in 1993 and growing the Boston operation from a small outpost to a nationally recognized industry leader. Prior to his time at Commonwealth, Bob held roles as Northeast Regional Counsel at Old Republic National Title Insurance Company and Assistant Regional Counsel at First American Title Insurance Company.

A leader in the field of real estate law, Bob was a longtime member of the Abstract Club, an invitation-only club limited to 100 lawyers in Massachusetts. In addition to serving as a past President of the New England Land Title Association, Bob served on the Massachusetts Real Estate Bar Association’s Executive Committee, Title Standards Committee, and Title Insurance and National Affairs Committee. He was a frequent lecturer and contributor to continuing legal education programs for a variety of groups and organizations, including the MBA, REBA, MCLE, BBA, MCA, and NELTA.

As an avid history buff and a direct descendant of several Pilgrims, he was a member of the Massachusetts Society of Mayflower Descendants, and he enjoyed learning about and tracking his family history. He was a member of the Phoenix-S.K. Club, the Fin, Fur, and Feather Club, a local sporting club, and the Westwood Gun Club. In addition, Bob reliably contributed to many worthy causes, including those close to his heart and those important to his friends.

Bob loved life. He loved Boston sports, especially the Boston Red Sox, and he spent countless afternoons and nights at Fenway Park, cheering his team to victory (sometimes). He loved trivia, numbers, and anything that challenged his mind, and he often could be found correcting contestants’ answers to questions on Jeopardy or completing a crossword puzzle. Bob loved to travel with his family, visiting nearly every corner of the globe, and he loved to explore locally, seeking out hidden gems and live music. He also loved to spend time with his family and friends at home, swimming in the pool, hosting dinners on the back deck, mixing up the world’s best pomegranate martinis, and sharing laughter and memories.

Everyone adored, respected, and trusted Bob. He lived by the Golden Rule, always treating others with compassion and understanding. A brilliant man, he tackled any challenge, including his battle with cancer, with a pragmatic approach, unwavering optimism, and a sense of humor. Bob fought his disease valiantly, determined not to be defeated by it. He continued to enjoy his time with family and friends, and he led by example how to meet adversity with courage and grace. He was very grateful for the kindness and support shown to him by all.

A Memorial Service is scheduled for September 25th at 11 AM at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Dedham. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Bob’s memory to support the research efforts of his doctor and friend, Dr. Toni Choueiri, at http://danafarber.jimmyfund.org/goto/Robert_Soule

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Donald George Friedl, a resident of Westwood since 1972, died unexpectedly Thursday, September 2, 2021 at his home at Fox Hill Village in Westwood. He was 88. Don was born December 7, 1932 in Cleveland, Ohio, a son of George Michael and Alma Elizabeth (Schwann) Friedl. Don grew up in Cleveland, graduated from Tulane University, and served in the US Army. He received his MBA from Columbia University in 1958 and moved through various companies before joining Howard Johnson’s in 1970. In the mid 1980’s he led a management buy out of the division he directed, becoming President and CEO of the new company. He retired in 1997. During Don’s forty plus years living in Westwood he was active in civic, community, and church affairs. He was a Trustee of Norwood Hospital and a longtime Trustee of the Westwood Library. Don and his wife have traveled extensively to all seven continents and circumnavigated the world four times and explored many wonders of the world. Don is the husband of Judith (Prenda) Friedl and of the late Genevieve R. (Weaver) Friedl. He is survied by his two sons, David D. Friedl of Mansfield and Lawrence A. Friedl, and his wife Jenny, of Arlington, Virginia; his daughters, Cathleen A. Ellis, and her husband Michael, of Westwood, and Sandra L. Jamieson, and her husband Mark, of Adams, New York; his brother, Allan Friedl, and his wife Anita, of Temple, Georgia; his nine grandchildren, Erin, Lauren, John, Laura, Karen, Heather, Porter, Lindy, and Tyler; and his two great grandchildren, Aliza and Cole. He is also survived by Judith’s daughter Anne Beaudoin, and her husband Robert, and their children, Abrielle and Emme. Visiting hours will be held Monday, September 13, 2021 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm at the Folsom Funeral Home, 649 High Street, Westwood. Don’s family has requested that masks be worn at the visiting hours.  Private interment with Military Honors will be at the New Westwood Cemetery. A Memorial Service will be held Saturday, November 6, 2021 at 2 pm at the First Parish of Westwood United Church, 252 Nahatan Street, Westwood.  Don’s family has requested that masks be worn at the Memorial Service also

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Sara “Sally” M. (Ferguson) Alborghetti of Dedham and Mashpee died Monday, August 23, 2021, at home after a short illness. She was 98. Born in Boston, she was the daughter of the late Kenneth and Katherine (MacCuspic) Ferguson. Mrs. Alborghetti grew up in Roslindale and graduated from Roslindale High School. She also held an Associates Degree. She worked as a secretary at John Hancock Life Insurance Company in Boston for many years before marrying and raising four children. After her children were grown, she worked at Chilton Publishing Company in Needham as an office manager. Mrs. Alborghetti was an active member of Emmanuel Lutheran Church in Norwood, where she was a longtime member of the choir. Wife of the late Peter Nino Alborghetti, she was also the sister of the late Christine Ferguson, Duncan Ferguson and John Ferguson. She is survived by four children, Susan Alborghetti of Roslindale; David Alborghetti of Randolph; Stephen Alborghetti and his wife Marie of Windham, NH and Paula Alborghetti of Dedham and twin grandsons, Peter Alborghetti and Nicholas Alborghetti, both of Windham, NH. Visiting hours will be held on Wednesday, September 8 from 4 to 8 PM at the Folsom Funeral Home, 87 Milton St., Dedham. A Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, September 9 at 10 AM at Emmanuel Lutheran Church, 24 Berwick St., Norwood (Masks required), followed by burial in Brookdale Cemetery, Dedham. Flowers are appreciated or donations in her memory may be made to Emmanuel Lutheran Church, 24 Berwick St., Norwood, MA 02062 or the Animal Rescue League, 55 Anna’s Place Dedham, MA 02026.

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Leo kevin Murphy, a longtime resident of Dedham, died Tuesday, August 24, 2021 at the West Roxbury Veteran’s Administration Hospital in Boston.  Leo was born May 3, 1936 in Boston, Massachusetts, the son of William Thomas and Josephine Elizabeth (McNulty) Murphy.  He served from 1953 to 1954 in the Marine Corps as a Private in Company A of the 2nd Infantry Battalion and then transferred to the US Airforce where he served at Keesler Airforce Base in Mississippi until his honorable discharge in 1957. Leo attended college for three year before becoming an electronics engineer in the Aviation Electronics field.  He was the former husband of the late Beverly Ann (Witt) Murphy and the late Regina A. (McIver) Beard Lasser.  Leo was the father of the late Kevin W. Murphy and is survived by three sons, Shawn Murphy, and his wife Jackie, of New Hampshire, James Murphy, and his wife Debbie, of California, and Leo K. Murphy Jr.  He is also survived by his sister, Helene Mader, and her husband Lloyd, of Lynnfield.  A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday, September 15, 2021 at 10 am at St. Mary’s Church, 420 High Street, Dedham followed by interment with military honors at the National Cemetery at Bourne at 1:15 pm.

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Anisa Banaj, a resident of Norwood, died Thursday, August 19, 2021 at the Tufts New England Medical Center in Boston after a long illness.  She was 7.  Anisa was born May 30, 2014 in Norwood, Massachusetts the daughter of Sokol and Albana (Isufi) Banaj, immigrants from Albania.  Anisa was a student at the Balch School in Norwood.  In addition to her parents she is survived by her sister Emma.  Visiting hours will be held Wednesday, August 25th from 9 to 11 am at the Folsom & May Funeral Home, 85 Nichols Street, Norwood.  Anisa’s funeral will be held at 11 am Wednesday at the funeral home followed by interment in Highland Cemetery, Winter Street, Norwood.

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George E. Hasapis, a resident of Norwood, died Sunday, August 8, 2021 at the Brigham & Women’s Hospital in Boston. He was 54. George was born April 6, 1967 in Tripoli, Greece, a son of Evenzalos and Niki (Peterlous) Hasapis, immigrants from Greece. George worked in the restaurant industry as a pizza maker. He is survived by his mother, Niki Hasapis of Norwood, and his sister, Maria Handras, of Clifton, New Jersey. He was the brother of the late Anastasia Hasapis who predeceasewd him in 2013. George’s funeral was held Wednesday, August 11, 2021 at St. Nectarios Greek Orthodox Church in Roslindale. George was buried at the Gardens at Gethsemane Cemetery on Baker Street in West Roxbury.

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